As South Africans we know about living in fear. Unfortunately we've reason to.
And I've often thought there is no worse fear than not feeling safe in one's own home. I'm not going to look for the stats but apparently we're one of the nations which spends the most on our home security - beams, bars, dogs and weapons, exorbitant monthly fees to security companies.
We've reached a point where one often feels safer in public, surrounded by people, then alone and asleep in one's home at night.
I've always thought that was weird.
But far weirder to not feel safe in public. To become a society which doesn't go to the movies, to shopping malls, to school for god's sake, for fear of lone psychopaths with semi-automatics, or coordinated terrorist attacks, suicide bombers or missile attacks from a neighbouring country. That is a whole different kind of fear.
Today I'll stick with mine thank you.